At first, you might have only met up occasionally, maybe for a quick dinner or a weekend hangout. But now, you’re seeing each other more often, and it’s not just about “chilling.” You might find yourselves running errands together, watching random Netflix shows, or even just sitting in silence, enjoying each other’s company. When someone becomes a part of your routine without forcing it, it’s a sign that things are getting serious.
2. You talk about the future and they’re in it
If they start talking about plans that involve you, even months ahead, it’s a big sign they see you as more than just a temporary fling. Maybe they mention taking a trip together, spending holidays with you, or even simple things like saving a weekend for your birthday. If they’re thinking long-term, it’s because they see you as someone important in their life.
3. You’re opening up about personal things
In the beginning, your conversations might have been light and fun, with no deep feelings involved. But now, they share personal details, their fears, dreams, and family stories. More importantly, you feel comfortable opening up too. Emotional connection is what separates a situationship from a real relationship. If they’re letting you into their world and genuinely care about yours, your bond is growing into something deeper.
4. You introduce each other to friends and family
In a casual situationship, you usually keep things private. But if they’re bringing you around their friends or even introducing you to family, it’s a big deal. It means they want the important people in their life to know about you. And if you’re doing the same, it’s a sign that you value them enough to include them in your world.
5. You both start to show jealousy (in a healthy way)
A little bit of jealousy is normal when feelings are involved. If they get curious about who you’re texting or seem slightly bothered when you mention going on a date with someone else, it could mean they care more than they’re admitting.
Pulse
By Joshua Tosin Ogunsakin 